How to Fix a Bad Marriage - 6 Helpful Tips to Make it Better

There are some who say there is no such thing as a bad marriage. I wouldn't listen to anyone who started out with that statement because it's just not true. I have seen some very bad marriages and I would dare anyone to define it some other way. Dog poop covered with vanilla ice cream and rainbow sprinkles still smells and taste like dog poop. When there is spousal abuse, abandonment, child abuse, infidelity and some behavior I will leave out it's a bad marriage, that needs fixing.

Marriage is usually not what couples envisioned it to be when they first tied the knot. It's also not like the marriages some folks read about in a romance novel or watch on a soap opera. Marriage is fun, exiting and exactly what happily married couples would tell anyone looking to get married - it takes work.

Does that mean that a bad marriage can't be fixed? No it doesn't.

So how to fix a bad marriage is the question and here are some tips to make the marriage better.

1. 
   Acknowledge there is a problem - This sounds simple but is very difficult to do. There are many reasons why couples don't want to acknowledge marital problems, such as pride, embarrassment and insecurity. What will family and friends and neighbors think if they ever found out? Chances are they will say "hey that's the same thing we went through or are going through". Most times problems are overlooked until they reach the point of blowing up into a major issue. Understanding the issues is critical to fixing a relationship.


2. 
   Discuss the problems that are contributing to the bad marriage in a non-threatening manner. There should be no pointing of fingers, yelling or rude facial expressions. The purpose is to clear the air not air all of your grievances. This must be done with the proper tone or discussions will turn into arguments and instead of making the marriage better it could make things worst. These discussions should be held when you are ready to give and receive feedback and not when you are ready for a fight.


3. 
   Take ownership of your contributions to the bad marriage. Verbally admit to the areas you need to work on to improve the relationship. Unless you are perfect, and no one is, you probably have more than one thing you can change. If you admit to your own faults I'm pretty sure your partner will own up to their faults.


4. 
   Agree to start fresh and commit to changing the bad marriage to a good marriage. Of course you realize fixing a relationship will take some time. However, if you make it a priority and work at it each day you will succeed. You will most likely have some set backs but for every step you take backwards you should be taking three steps forward. After you get to good you can work on moving to great.


5. 
   Bury the past and no longer bring up past issues, problems or mistakes. The past is gone and only the good old days should be discussed. This will go a long way in helping to fix a bad marriage.


6. 
   Be open to give and receive constructive criticism regarding positive and negative things that are helping or hurting the goal of fixing your relationship.

Marriage is work but the rewards are well worth the effort. So how to fix a bad marriage is by agreeing on problem areas that need tweaking and working together to restore your relationship. I believe every bad marriage can be restored with the proper commitment and perhaps some help. The help could be counseling or other resources such as those found at restoring relationships where the resources can be utilized at home without involving others.

Possesion Aggression Object Guarding

Canine Possession Aggression

Canine Possession Aggression........object guarding, this is the act of aggressively protecting objects such as toys, pigs ears, rawhide chews, bones, or articles that the dog has found or stolen, such as socks shoes underwear tissues and human food.

The ears going back will be part of typical body language relating to this behaviour. The dog then will go into a crouch over the object, displaying a whale eye, that is the head turned away but the eyes are swivelled back towards you the perceived threat to his possession, the whites showing, you may also find the lips are slightly pulled back almost in a grin. Look at pictures of whales and you will see why whale eye gets its name.
Mine! All Mine.

So why would the dog want to protect these objects? Simple answer is that it's normally a learned experience. Either it is a reaction from their siblings taking and tugging objects away at an early age, or we teach them this behaviour by our actions and reactions. As a puppy, your dog wandered through parts of the house, picking up and investigating any little object left lying around. However as soon as he picked up something we did not want him to have, we immediately snatched this precious possession away.

Before long, our intrepid pup would pick up an object then run away so we couldn't take away his find, he would scamper either to another room, the garden, under or behind a table, settee, or chair anywhere where we could not easily relieve him of his treasure.

So what do we do? We follow him to wherever he has hidden away, shouting leave it, or drop! What does the little monster do, he whale eyes you and starts to growl. He has now learned a couple of very valuable lessons.

1. When you give a command, he does not always need to

obey.

2. If he shows aggression, you back off. And by our

actions, we have successfully taught him to resource

guard.

Advice?

Well meaning friends and of course the inimitable doggy experts. You will find these in abundance in any park, street, pub or internet forum, they will tell you to grab the dog by the scruff of the neck then forcibly remove the object, put the dog into an alpha roll position, or give it a good thump. The tips and advice are endless. If you analyse them all you will find that nearly every suggestion will be confrontational, these methods will inevitably have the exact opposite effect to what you are hoping to cure.

What you will rarely be told is to train the dog so that it wants to give up the object, that the dog will think it is fun and rewarding to let you have these treasured articles back.

Start Early

Your puppies and adult dogs should be used to having their mouth touched, when you then wish to remove something it isn't seen as confrontational. From the day you get your dog, either as a puppy or adult dog, brush his teeth, play with his flews (the floppy bits on the upper lip), open his mouth, check his tonsils, look down his throat, do this in a positive fun way with lots of praise and the occasional treat.

Purchase a long rawhide knot or bone. Hold on to one end of the knot while the dog chews on the other. He may want to play tug, but just hold do not pull away, in time he will get used to your presence and relax and just chew.

It is important for your dog to view you as the provider of all good things. You can do this by tightly controlling the dog's environment. Keep all but one or two toys up off the floor and take the others down only when you want to play. Make sure you offer an item with a command like "Take it." When you are tired of the game (you that is, not the dog), tell the dog to "Drop" or "Dead" Give him another item or treat in exchange, and then pick up the first object and put it away.

Do you know your dog's likes and dislikes? Compose a list of all the things your dog really enjoys including food, toys, treats and activities, rank them in a hierarchical order, In exchange for dropping the first item give your dog a second, "better" item. For instance, if tennis ball retrieving is third on your dog's list, reward him with cheese, frankfurter or puffed jerky for dropping the tennis ball. If your dog attempts to pick up a bit of rubbish in the street, command him to "drop" and then throw or give him his tennis ball.

Give a Cue

Teach the word dead, drop, or give, do it in a fun way with a happy high silly voice. Start by allowing him to have something that is not so valuable then trade with him for his favourite treat, what is his favourite treats or game? Do you really know your dog's likes and dislikes?

This is fine for teaching young pups or dogs that are not presently guarding but what about ones that are already way down the road of resource guarding. Training a young puppy is relatively easy. Re-training an older dog is more difficult, but not impossible.

Trade and Reward

Firstly take away all objects the dog is guarding, that could be toys, tissues, chews, bones, pigs ears or sleeping places, that includes beds, sofas or chairs. You may not be able to move the latter but you can cover it, put a box or something else on it that will restrict access. Do not allow access to these precious resources a number of days.

You need to prepare for the next stage if the guarding is articles such as toys chews bones etc, prepare some of the dogs really favourite treats, cheese or frankfurter tends to be high on the list. Then get a low value object, it may be a tissue or a sock, a pigs ear for instance may be perceived as high value. Try to be slightly to the side of the dog rather than face on and relax, take the tension you may feel out of your body as the dog will both smell and sense your fear and this could trigger a reaction.

Offer the object to the dog but try and keep hold of it as the dog takes it, use whatever release command you have decided on it could be "dead" "drop" "leave" or "trade" immediately produce the tasty treat from behind your back and exchange. Praise when the exchange takes place and give back the object you first exchanged.

Set scheduled times to repeat this exercise at least four times a day but also just do it in opportune moments. Gradually up the anti of treasured goods. Over a period of time the dog will start to look forward to your approach and game. It is at this time that you give your dog the object and walk away, at first come back immediately and trade gradually making the time and distance you walk away longer, until you clearly see the dog is having no problems with your approach whatsoever. Then only give a treat every third time, then every tenth, take the object away and immediately give it back extending the period on this until the guarding behaviour disappears.

As with food guarding, you want to build a positive association around people approaching the objects being guarded. The dog needs to understand that approaching people and the removal of objects can be positive and rewarding.
Location or Bed Guarding

This is not always as simple as it may seem, as the severity or incidence may be related to who is approaching. It may be that a woman can approach the bed or sleeping place but not a man, an adult but not a child. It is not always tied to the object being guarded, but more to the relationship or lack of it of the person approaching the resource.

Sometimes this behaviour manifests itself when we try to move the dog off a sofa or when we handle or stroke the dog. It is worth in these cases making sure the dog is not ill or in pain as this could stimulate aggressive reactions.

As with other forms of guarding, make this a positive experience. Gauge how far you can approach before any aggressive reaction occurs. Initially keep to this distance and as you pass throw a treat, praising the dog at the same time. Make sure you do not praise or treat if there is growling or any show of aggression. Gradually decrease the distance over a period of time, do not rush the exercise, if the dog starts to react go back a few steps and start again. Change your angle of approach and the person who is approaching. Always try not to approach head on come in at an angle from the side give lots of verbal praise for a calm and passive reaction from the dog.

Maintain the Status Quo

Over time your pet will come to realise that your approach is a positive experience and the guarding will hopefully cease. However if it starts up again repeat the exercise. You should practice once a week exchange or trade, for the remainder 0of the dogs life.

If you are already at the point where the dog has actually bitten you, then I would suggest you get professional help. This should be from a behaviourist or a trainer who understands aggression. You should look for one that comes to your house. I never understand how professionals can assess your dog's behaviour from the confines of a vets or an office. The dog reacts very differently when out of its own environment.
Stan Rawlinson

© 24 July 2005

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Stan is recommended by numerous Vets, Rescue Centres, and Charities. He writes articles and comments on behavioural issues and techniques for dog magazines including Our Dogs, Dogs Monthly, K9 Magazine, Shooting Times, Pet Talk and Pet Owner Magazine. He is also a behavioural spokesman for Disney and has appeared on Television, Radio and in National Newspapers on many occassions

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Tear Stain Remover - A Super Easy Way to Clean Dog Tear Stains That Really Works

I have 5 beautiful Maltese dogs that are part of my family.

It took some trial and error but I finally found the white dog tear stain remover that works best for my Maltese.

Below I will share a few tips that have been recommended to me over the years and finally I will share the one easy fool proof and safe method that has worked for all 5 of my Maltese to give them beautiful clean white faces.

Tip 1 - It helps to keep the hair out of your Maltese dog's eyes because hair in the eyes can increase eye irritation and cause your dog's eyes to water and drain. Many Maltese owners accomplish this by putting the hair around the eyes into a pony tail top knot above the head - kind of cute for those of you that like that. You can also trim the hair around the eyes but for those of you that have an unsteady hand or your Maltese is a bit jumpy or skittish I don't recommend that you do the trimming yourself or you may cause an injury.

Tip 2 - I hesitate to even share this tip because I do NOT recommend that you do this. However it is important for you to be aware of this method that some Maltese owners use. Some people use bleach products applied to the hair around the eyes to get rid of these stains but this method can actually be extremely harmful to your dog. In fact it can not only hurt your dog, it may well lead to further staining around the eye area.

Tip 3 - This is my favorite way to battle maltese eye and WIN. I add a special all natural powder to my Maltese's food and it keeps all 5 of my Maltese dog's faces clean, dry and brilliantly white. This powder works fast - usually within 2 weeks my Maltese have gone from tear stained wet ugly faces to clean dry and white faces. So for me I have found the best way to fight those ugly eye stains. This is such a simple solution that works for me and my Maltese!

The easy to use tear stain remover that my dogs love.

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Celtic Wedding Bands

Celtic wedding bands have their origins in Ireland. The word Celtic is derived from the Celts who inhabited Ireland centuries ago. Celtic bands derive their designs from Irish manuscripts, like the Book of Kells. Celtic wedding bands have been traditional the world over and are popular today. In early days, these were treated as a symbol of wealth, status and fidelity. They were passed on from one generation to the other, thus becoming family heirlooms.

Celtic bands are available for both, men and women. These are hand made by special craftspeople in Ireland and are then shipped across the globe. These bands are continuous circle and do not have a beginning or an end. This symbolizes eternal and endless love. The characteristic of a Celtic band is the design that appears as metal strands interwoven together. These are said to bind the couple together for their past, present and future. Celtic wedding bands/rings come in sets with diamond rings. In order to make Celtic designs on rings, these need to have a specific width. These bands cannot be resized and care should be taken that the precise ring-size is chosen. Designs can be of different kinds such as the Celtic Knot Work, Trinity Knot, and Celtic Warrior Shield. Different designs symbolize different things. There are very few knots of Celtic design that are said to be Scottish, Irish or Welsh.

When looking at a Celtic band, it should be noted that the designs are not broken and are continuous. Sometimes in order to fit the right ring size, a jeweler might compromise on the designs. In Celtic bands, the choice of metal can be silver, white gold, gold and platinum. Along with handcrafted designs, precious stones can also be set. Celtic bands are gaining popularity, as they are symbolic and come with a tradition of exquisite craftsmanship.

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How to Wear a Lariat Necklace - 8 Looks the Pros Love

Unlike a typical necklace, a Lariat does not have a clasp; rather, it is characterized by one long strand that can be tied or wrapped in a number of ways to create a variety of looks. Here, one fashion professional shares a few tips on when, where and how to wear a Lariat.

Layered Strand: Since most Lariats are long, you can almost always wrap them around twice, regardless of which tie you settle on. Place the center of the strand at your throat, cross the loose ends behind your neck and bring them back to your chest. Then tie the loose ends in one of the fashions below.

Short Dangle: One of the characterizing elements of a Lariat necklace is the strand (or strands) that dangle below the wearer's neck. A short dangle (where the knot is low) creates a broad V that will mirror and enhance a moderate V neck or button-up blouse. This style does not work as well with crewnecks, as it will tend to make the wearer look broader than she is. Likewise, the short dangle will get lost with a deep V neck. This is a casual Lariat look, appropriate for the office or a sporting event.

Long Dangle: The long dangle conveys elegance and can be expected to enhance a fancy top or gown. A Lariat made of white or clear stones can be a simple but exciting contrast to a black gown. To dress the look down a bit, choose a Lariat with a more casual material and wear colors that don't draw too much attention to the jewelry.

Quick Tie: For a casual but delicate look, tie one end over the other as with the first step of tying your shoes. This works best with materials that are not too stiff, so that the ends stay tied and drop.

Overhand Knot in Front: With the Lariat positioned around your neck, take both ends together and tie them in a simple overhand knot. Adjust the knot position to create a long or short dangle. This usually works without a layered strand and can be worn with almost any top.

Overhand Knot in Back: Tie the necklace as you would for an overhand knot in front, but this time, move the dangling ends to the back of your neck. This is a chic style that works best with an open-back evening gown and an updo. Make sure the knot is placed high on the back of the neck so that it does not shift or droop in front.

Slip Knot: This look works best when the necklace has a loop built into one end, but can be adapted for other Lariats as well. With an existing loop, simply thread one end of the Lariat through the other, adjusting the dangle length as appropriate. When there is no loop, tie one end around the other with a single pretzel knot by wrapping strand A around strand B once, then threading strand A through itself.

Belt: One final option is to ignore the neckline altogether and dress up the waist. If there are belt loops, use them. Otherwise drape the Lariat around the waist and tie any of the above knots about one inch center from the hipbone.

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How Do I Stop My Dog From Pulling on the Leash?

1. How do I stop my dog from pulling on the leash?

My name is Josh Schermer and I run Downtown Pets a New York City dog walking, dog training and pet sitting company in Lower Manhattan. Some of my clients have the greatest dogs in the world and they love them on all levels EXCEPT when it comes to taking them for a walk. This of course is a big problem because let alone how fun it is to take a walk with your dog it is also essential for their long term health and happiness.

2. Why is my dog pulling?

First of all it is inherent in most dogs to try and be the pack leader and the pack leader walks in front. But have you always allowed your dog to feel like the pack leader both on the leash and at home? Does your dog walk through doors, into elevators and on the leash in front of you? All of these things tell your dog that it is your pack leader and that must be changed.

3. Why does my dog pull away from me as I try and pull him towards me?

There is a reflex action in a dogs brain that does this. There are products like the gentle leader that trick the dog by putting pressure on all side of it's head so it stays centered. But we only recommend gentle leaders for aggressive dogs and even then only if the dog does not try and continue to pull.

4. What type of leash should I use and how should I hold it?

We DO NOT recommend using retractable leashes but rather your typical nylon leash with a push lever. We put knots in our leashes starting a foot or so up from the clip and then every few inches afterwards. Hold your leash at the first or second lowest knot and ALWAYS hold it there. Your dog will grow to understand the boundary you have created.

5. What should I do when my dog tries to pull past me?

Start to utter sounds of disapproval like "ah, ah, ah" and stop dead in your tracks. Do that EVERY TIME your dog tries to pull past you. Between that and holding the leash at the lowest knot it should help.

6. What type of equipment do you recommend to use with the above ideas?

We recommend sensation harness' for most dogs.

I have fallen in love with a product called the "sensation harness" and it has had instant effects on all dogs we have used it with. It's different than your normal harness because you clip the leash on the chest. There are many benefits from the sensation harness and some of them are:

A. Dogs like the simplicity of it.

B. If on properly and your leash is held correctly, the dog can not pull past you.

C. Amazingly effective in bringing a dog back into your mentality.

D. Has not to this point been attributed with any possible health problems like all other dog training equipment have.

7. What should I use for an aggressive dog who pulls?

If you have an aggressive dog you should think about a gentle leader. If the gentle leader is on properly and you are holding the leash short and tight your dog has limited to no ability to harm anything. This is because when he tries to leap the gentle leader tightens and closes his mouth. BUT if your aggressive dog continues to try and pull the gentle leader even after many weeks it's NOT a long-term solution for you. Gentle leaders can cause problems to the eyes and neck if not used properly.

8. How long should it take for my dog to walk better?

Every dog and owner are different but if you are consistent with the above AND give your dog enough exercise you should see improvements within the first month.

Josh Schermer is the founder and owner of Downtown Pets, a New York City dog walking, dog training and animal welfare resource.

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Stress Relief - 5 Ways to Get It

I'm sure you know what I mean when I tell what its like to have a knot the size of a watermelon in your stomach. It twists and turns and just wont let go. You're stressed out one more time this week and you need to find a bit of relief. Here are 7 ways that you can get some stress relief, I'm sure will help you out.

1. If you're really stressed take a time out and go find a place to relax. Lie down for a while , breathe and clear your mind. Then when you go back to what you were doing you will be able to focus better.

2. This is something I do quite often when something is stressing me out... I sleep on it. Stress causes an incredible strain on the body both physically and mentally. I find that mental stress can actually tire you out more than physical stress. But once you get some sleep you wake up refreshed and stress free.

3. Eat cleaner and by that I mean more nutrient dense food. Fruits and vegetables are nature's food. They help support the body's functions. You should avoid junkfood and stimulants such as coffee or soda as they contribute to higher stress levels.

4. Turn off the tv, radio and no newspapers. Although we may never think about it, the world that is going on around us can be a great stress factor in our lives. Watching, listening or reading about murder, terrorism and other forms of violence cannot possible create anything positive for us in our lives. So why do it? Try to just take one day without media in your life and you will see the difference it can make.

5. Try to find some balance in your life. Too much of any one thing is never good. If you work too much then try spending more time with family or friends. Maybe you can help out other people with something. Try to take life on day at a time.

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"KEEP HEADING FOR HEALTHY!"

Dan is a certified personal trainer who has helped people with their fitness goals as well as provide advice on disease, nutrition, training and supplementation. While making some major changes is his life he learned better ways of creating and sustaining change and would like to pass that knowledge on to others.

Tips For Training Your Golden Retriever

All right - you've finally made the decision to get yourself a sweet little Golden Retriever puppy, and now you want to know how to train it. Well, you've come to the right place. We're going to give you some of the best tips on training your Golden Retriever.

One thing is for sure. Golden Retriever puppies love to chew. They're going to chew the hell out of your slippers, curtains, shoes - or anything they can get their paws on! So this is an area where we will focus first. The fact is, they are going to chew because they are teething, and need to chew on something.

So, giving them chew toys may help you solve this problem, but here's something else you can do. Take some ice cubes, and fill them in an old sock. Knot the sock at the top, and place it in the freezer. When you see your dog getting itchy to chew something, give him the sock then. Make sure you stick around to see that they don't accidentally swallow it or choke themselves on it.

Another good tip for training your Golden Retriever is to develop a daily routine for it. Water and food should be given in the same place every meal to ensure that the pup knows where it has to go to eat and drink. Ideally, your dog should be getting three meals (Lunch, Evening snack, Dinner) at similar times each day to regularize his eating habits. The pup should also grow up knowing where it will sleep every night. It should be in the same place.

Timings should also be applied to ensure that the dog understands what time it should sleep and get up. Most importantly, timings for walks and going to the bathroom should be regularized with a vengeance. Golden Retrievers love to walk, and have a keen sense of direction. They always want to know that everything is okay in their surroundings, and where stuff is kept. Having a schedule for your Golden Retriever gives him confidence in knowing that things are routine, and predictable. It also makes him trust you and depend on you.

It is easy to teach your Golden Retriever pup some new words. An easy tip for training your Golden Retriever is to teach words with phonetic meaning. For example, you can teach it to understand 'no' with a phonetic 'nooooooo' or 'Uh-huh' or 'NO!' or 'Stop'. Similarly, you can pet the dog and praise it with phonetic sounds like 'good boy' or 'good' or 'that's good'. Dogs can feel the difference in your tone more than they grasp the word itself. You will see them grasp these commands much faster this way along with 'sit',' stand', etc. Teach them to 'stay' in their dog house or crate when they sleep using this technique as well.

Once they are over 3 to 6 months old, you can increase the number of commands to include sitting for long periods of time, lying down, stop barking, interact with other pets and guests, walk properly when on the leash, to come when you call, to give you an object or fetch it for you, among many others. You can teach them to react to tugs on the leash, such as moving in the direction of the tug. You can get them used to the idea of a collar and leash by letting them move freely with it attached and not holding it.

Hopefully the above tips for training your Golden Retriever will make things a lot easier for you.

Looking for information on golden retrievers? If you are looking for advice on tips for training your golden retriever or house breaking your golden retriever, visit us now. GoldenRetrieverAdvice.org is a goldmine for information on everything related to golden retrievers.

Dog Tear Stain - What Causes Tear Stain and How I Easily Remove it From My Maltese Dogs

Dog Tear Stain is a very frustrating problem with which scores of Maltese dog owners find themselves struggling.

In a recent survey of over 600 Maltese owners well over 90% of them stated that their Maltese had some form of eye stain, eye discharge or tear stain problem.

While there are many sources that state quite a few theories of how Maltese eye stain occurs, the bottom line for most Maltese owners is wanting a simple cure for it.

One of the main causes of Maltese eye stain that is most commonly discussed is excess tearing.

If your Maltese has irritated eyes it can cause them to tear a lot. As the tears drain from the eyes the hair around the eyes gets wet and stained. Excess wetness around the eyes can be a breeding ground for bacteria and yeast.

Some of the causes of excess tearing are:

-a genetic predisposition to tearing
-allergies (these could be from the environment or from food allergies or even allergies to smoke or other irritants)
- ear infections
- teething or cutting teeth (common for Maltese puppies from 5 - 8 months old as their adult teeth are appearing)

If you can find the source of your Maltese tearing you can often keep the majority of the tear staining from even starting.

However due to the Maltese predisposition to tear staining genetically, in many cases it is very difficult to either find the source of the tear staining or to prevent it.

One way that all Maltese owners can help decrease the tear stain on their Maltese is to pay attention to the hair around the face and prevent hair from falling into the eyes. A simple top knot on your Maltese can go a long way in reducing the irritation to the eyes that causes more tear staining.

Your Maltese does not have to live with ugly eye stain and discharge. Your Maltese can have a beautiful clean face and coat again.

How do I know? I have 5 maltese and several of them suffered from severe tear stain. I found a simple solution (after trying dozens that did not work!) and now my Maltese are tear stain free!

Get all the details about the tear stain remover I use at http://MalteseEyeStains.com

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Earrings - Know the Enduring Style of These Decorative Trinkets

Dating back as far as 2500 B.C. and probably further, women and men have adorned their ears with decorative trinkets known as earrings. One of the first styles discovered from ancient times were hoop earrings, which has endured the fickle nature of fashion to still be a popular style thousands of years later.

Changing trends
Throughout history, fashion and hairstyles have dictated the trend of adorning the ears. When high collars and elaborate hairstyles and hair pieces were in fashion, the ears didn't need anything. But, when hair was piled up and necklines plunged, there was suddenly a lot of open space that needed something. Gemstone diamond earrings commonly dangled from the upper class ladies in their piled high wigs.

The popularity of wearing ear jewelry waxed and waned over the centuries, but after World War I and the arrival of short flapper hair-styles, they made resurgence and silver earrings and other styles remain popular to this day.

Men also wear them to make some sort of statement, usually as a status symbol. They may wear one gold earring as a hoop or stud or they may don a pair of diamonds. There is no rule about the right and wrong way for a man to wear his jewelry. It's all about what he feels comfortable with.

The classics
There are a few styles that are classic and will always be popular. Designers often embellish these basics, but they are great plain or elaborate.

Hoop- This style can be a full circle, half or even a dangle. Decorative images can be showcased in the center of the circle or charms can dangle down the middle. There is a lot of versatility with this classic style, but the plain hoop remains the most popular. They can be tiny for a conservative look or very large to add drama.

Stud- This is a simple style that consists of a gemstone, gold or silver ball or knot attached to a post. It just covers the pierced hole. Jackets can be added for a fancier look.

Dangle- Threader ones are a new trend that fall into the dangle category. The concept is simple- the piece dangles from the ear and moves with the body. Chandelier diamond earrings and other
embellishments are also a variety of the dangle style.

Drop- The drop is different from the dangle in that it is stationary and it does not hang as far below the earlobe. A drop is typically a single piece so that there is no movement. Drop pearl ones are a simple classic look, particularly for a wedding.

Because designers are constantly coming up with new trends and designs, there will always be something for every personality. Earrings are a way for a person to have some fun and express themselves.

And, the best part is that they can change their style from day to day. One day, she might feel a little flirty and want to feel the gold brushing her shoulders. Another day, she may just want to see the sparkle of solitaire diamonds when she tucks her hair behind her ear. In the world of ear trinkets, anything goes!

Earrings have long been a part of the human culture.

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Dandie Dinmont Terrier Dog Breed Profile

The Dandie Dinmont Terrier is a small dog that is longer than it is tall, it has a distinctive head that is large in proportion to the body with long ears and eyes that are hazel in colour and have a beautiful wise expression. They have a surprisingly quick and fluent walk and are either pepper or mustard in colour Pepper can range from a dark black or blue, to a light silvery grey, mustard ranges from a reddish brown to a pale fawn Colour They can stand up to 11 inches tall and weigh 24 lbs. They are also well known for their top knot, which should be in proportion to their size and be silky to the touch.

History. Developed in the 17th century they became known as Dandie Dinmonts' after Sir Walter Scott wrote about them in his book "Guy Mannering" this is also where the names for its colouring pepper and mustard comes from, as these were the names of his dogs. To this day they remain the only breed to be named after a fictional character, they are also though of as one of the most ancient terrier breeds. They were originally used to hunt otters, small vermin and badgers; though today they are mostly known only as pets.

Temperament. Dandie Dinmont Terriers are very affectionate dogs, but can also be independent. They are a dignified breed but when they want something they can be very persistent and very determined. They are very intelligent which makes them easy to train, and they should be trained not to bark from a young age to stop any persistent barking problems are they get older. They have excellent problem solving abilities but can be stubborn if they don't want to do something. Dandie Dinmont Terriers are a very lively breed with good hunting abilities, they do however suffer from 'small dog syndrome' whereby unless properly trained they can often think that they are "King of the world" this can lead to traits such as aggressiveness, anxiety and being very stubborn, this is not their natural temperament, and by having a firm yet gentle owner these problems will disappear.

Health Issues. Although normally a very healthy breed they can suffer from epilepsy and glaucoma, a disease which damages the optic nerve. They can also develop back problems, especially if the dog is over weight, intervertaebral disc are a problem as well and so for the first 12 months especially the dog should avoid high impact activities such as climbing and jumping.

Grooming. Dandie Dinmont Terriers do not shed much, however regular brushing is required and they should be hand stripped by a professional at least once or twice a year. Their feet also need to be regularly trimmed to keep them looking neat.

Living Conditions. Dandie Dinmont Terriers are suitable for living in flats and small houses as long as they get a daily walk or have a small garden they can run around in. They are mainly an indoor dog as they are not the most energetic dogs, they get on well with children and other dogs, however because they are dogs that by nature hunt small vermin and animals, they would not get on well with a house that also has hamsters, rabbits or guinea pigs. They can though live with cats as long as the dog was raised with the cat.

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How to Look Good With Sterling Silver Bracelets

Sterling silver is the purest form of silver that may be used to make jewelry. Sterling silver bracelets come in different styles and shapes. These bracelets are worn by men and women, and they enhance the appearance of any person who chooses them correctly and wears them with style.

Simple sterling silver bracelets:
These bracelets may be in the form of links or chains and may be thin ropes or thick ropes. Thin silver bracelets may be worn during formal or casual occasions.

Sterling silver charm bracelets:
Silver charm bracelets are an ageless piece of jewelry. These charms could symbolize something very personal or they may symbolize generic things like love, eternity and protection. Silver charm bracelets may carry any number of charms ranging from a single charm to well over 20 charms. Some people like to hang lucky stones or birth stones on their bracelets.

Silver cuff bracelet:
Silver cuff bracelets are very much in vogue these days as they are in keeping with the trend of wearing stunning heavy pieces of jewelry. These may be worn during casual or semi-formal occasions. The cuff bracelet enfolds the cuff lovingly and is a great embellishment. Silver cuff bracelets may be encrusted with pearls or gemstones. They may even be made of high quality leather in combination with precious metal and stones. They may have a particular theme.

Gothic silver bracelets:
One of the major draws of the season has been the use of theme-based and culture-specific jewelry. Thus, Gothic and Celtic jewelry have become very popular with people all over the world. Sterling silver bracelets may incorporate the Gothic or Celtic theme. These bracelets are different and can help the wearer stand out from the crowd.

Trendy bracelets:
Many of the latest designs in bracelets are trendy, geometrical designs that combine silver and other materials to produce attractive jewelry. Tiffany inspired bead bracelets and pearl bracelets are examples.

Friendship bracelets:
Friendship bracelets make excellent gifts, particularly when they are made with sterling silver. These bracelets have a typical design and are fastened using a knot type clasp. Friendship bracelets may be simple or more decorative.

When choosing sterling silver bracelets, it is important to pay attention to the following aspects:
The quality of silver is ensured as you are buying sterling silver which is the purest form of silver that may be used for making jewelry.
The nature of the clasp plays an important role as silver bracelets need to be clasped properly to the arm to ensure their safety.
The size of the bracelet is important too. Bracelets that are too large fall off the arm while those that are too small do not have the natural mobility that you associate with bracelets.

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White Gold Clip On Earrings - A Few Things That You Ought To Know

There are many reasons why a woman might decide that she prefers the options offered by clip on earrings over those offered by pierced ears. Perhaps she has an allergy to most earrings made for pierced ears, or perhaps she simply doesn't like the idea of the earring getting ripped out in what is known as the cheese-grater effect. Women who have chosen to use clip on earrings over pierced ones often run into the problem that the earrings that are offered as clip ons seem a little less mature or elegant than those offered for pierced ears. As more and more women decide to avoid piercing their ears, however, you'll find that the designs for clip earrings become a great deal more grown-up, and that some of the designs, especially those done in white gold, are quite striking and captivating.

Clip on earrings made of white gold are an elegant choice, and if you are looking at these lovely accessories, there are a few things that you ought to know. White gold is gold that has more of a whitish or silvery tinge to it, and it greatly complements people with paler skin, especially if they are fair enough that their skin has almost bluish tones in it. It also looks great with skin that is very dark, but the right gemstones or complementing materials can also make it shine. White gold is essentially an alloy; it is gold mixed with nickel or palladium. If you have a strong nickel allergy, it is very important that you make sure that your white gold is mixed using palladium; though clip on earrings are fairly non-reactive and do not create hives or allergic reactions, it never hurts to be sure.

If you are a woman with a rounder face and full cheeks, look for white gold clip on earrings that have a more oval shape, or have a fall of silvery or golden strands. Longer earrings will lengthen your face and draw attention to your eyes, and if you have long dark hair that is worn loose, you'll find that it complements both your hair and your face. If you are a woman with a long face or a broad forehead, look for white gold clip on earrings that are molded more to look like a cluster. You'll find that knot work earrings or earrings that act as a setting for a single lovely gem work admirably well for this prospect.

There are many reasons that you might be interested in getting white gold earrings, but don't forget that they make great gifts as well. You can look for a more traditional design for an older woman, or you can look for something fun and funky for the teenager of your acquaintance, but remember that if you've got a need to look for earrings to go with non-pierced ears, look for some white gold clip on earrings!

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Make Your Own Large Dog Muzzle

Most dog muzzles could be purchased from the stores. It is more dependable and serves the purpose of preventing your dog from injuring others or biting whatever you do not intend it to. However if you find yourself in times of emergency where the dog is injured and could not find a muzzle, it is helpful for you to learn to make one that could be used temporal period. Let us specify that it will be intended for a large dog as an example to explain how to make your own large dog muzzle.

You need to get for a homemade large dog muzzle are some thin nylon strips. If there is none, try getting item like nylon pantyhose, necktie, belts, strips of cloth or cords. You need to make sure this is cut to around two feet long in length. Tie a knot in the middle of the strip or any item you chose to use. Then make a big loop which will be enough space to fit and slip over the dog's nose and mouth. After that, stand behind your pet. Gently and slowly slip the loop over its nose or snout as not to shock the dog. Ensure that the loop will not lie on the nose part as it will disturb the breathing. Put it to be closer to the eyes part. Pull both ends of the strip down under the chin part. Then try to tie a knot but not too tight that it makes the dog feels discomfort. Wrap it around the mouth a few times and bring the ends behind the ears. Tie a bow behind the head. If you tie a knot it may takes longer time to untie it in cases you need to remove it quickly.

This homemade muzzle is not meant to replace the normal ones which you could buy. It is a suggestion and idea for emergency usage only. For day to day usage, this homemade muzzle would not be functioning well to prevent biting and chewing.

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A Mid-Life Transformation - From Soccer Mom to Cowgirl!

When I was a litigation attorney and the mother of three young boys, I'd often go to sleep with a vague sense of anxiety and wake with a knot in my stomach. Like so many professional women, my days consisted of running around in uncomfortable clothes screaming at other drivers while making carpooling arrangements for a soccer game on my cell phone. Just so you get the full picture, I lived in New Jersey.

Alas, in my profession there was also a lot of yelling - I was routinely subjected to tirades from clients who wanted "justice," senior partners who wanted more money, and frustrated judges. Then I'd go home to an unhappy husband and three hungry kids.

By the age of 40, I couldn't believe how my life had turned out.

Something had gotten away from me. In high school and college I was a free-spirited athlete, strong and funny, a minimalist woman who could live out of a backpack. Ten years later I was mortgaged, obligated, and stuck. But don't cry for me, dear reader, because alleluia, I am stuck no more. Now, I'm a cowgirl.

The journey from attorney and soccer mom to horse wrangler was a wild one but my story's ending here at a ranch in Colorado had been written by forces much bigger than this little Italian girl from Philly. It was inevitable that I'd end up in blue jeans, knee-high in horse poop, going for days without a shower when I live outdoors. I had never even been to the Rocky Mountains but they sure visited me on a regular basis. Due to marriage and other compromising life circumstances, though, I was about as far from the minimalist mountain life as I could imagine. Living in New Jersey, working as a lawyer, always a little lost, and unhappy.

After sixteen years of litigation I had nothing left. Suffering classic symptoms of burn out - insomnia, depression, distracted thinking - it became more difficult for me to plug on. I was a good lawyer; my clients loved me and that was mutual, but the system is a rather huge, bureaucratic, and hopeless morass mainly bent on enriching attorneys. I found myself feeding people into a machine over which I had no control, and one which would ultimately deplete them. So onerous was the litigation process and so unpredictable that I initiated each client meeting with a "Get Some Religion" lecture:

"Forget 'justice' or revenge," I'd say, "You're not going to feel better when this is over. You won't be vindicated, just exhausted. But there's a chance I can get you some money."

When I was defending someone who had been sued the lecture was even bleaker:

"You probably haven't done anything wrong. That doesn't really matter," my client's face would be grim. "We can try and settle quickly but you might want to take wads of cash and throw them out the window because it's the same result. This process is really costly."

That was it, that was all I had to give and it was a gruesomely realistic picture.

The last law firm I worked for started to go under financially and each day there was the sort of panic in the air you sense with any sinking ship. Employees spent most of their time looking for other jobs, and pilfering supplies while partners screamed at secretaries to recycle envelopes.

The handwriting, you might say, was on the wall writ pretty large. Twenty years earlier, on graduating from college I taught seventh grade and after listening to my adversaries throw temper tantrums for two decades, I knew I was ready to take on high school kids. As it happened there was a mid-year job opening for an English teacher at a local school. I took a 50% salary cut, and jumped at the opportunity to ditch lawyering. When interviewed by the school board, I was asked why I would leave law to teach high school:

"Take your worst teenagers," I replied without hesitation, "Dress then in suits and give them power. Put them in a room and tell them whoever yells longest and loudest wins. That's what it's like to practice law."

I loved teaching high school, and the income loss was seamless. I had practiced law on "The Mommy Track" for many years, working part-time or 80% time, declining assignments that involved travel and long hours. Using a strategy that confounded my peers, I insisted on keeping my lawyer salary on par with a teacher's, so that I could always make a lateral move. By the time I left law I was being paid more than I wanted or needed. I was in the process of getting divorced for the second time, my personal life being as chaotic as my inner energy, and I had learned to live frugally if nothing else.

Boy, did I love teaching high school. The kids were funny, willing, frightened and my English class was often a love-fest. Though I taught literature, there was music in my classroom, and food was always available for the ravenous teenager. Opening up to me, their writing was often stunning and rich. It was difficult to engage the modern teenager in most required works, however, like Beowulf or The Scarlet Letter. My lesson planning took hours and I always had stacks of essays to read each night. I was up at 5:00 a.m. and coached sports so I was rarely home before six o'clock. I never worked so hard in my life.

Aside from the grueling workload, I found the system so restrictive I could hardly fathom how kids and teachers survived it. I taught 110 teenagers a day, and they were in and out every forty-three minutes. There was barely a breather to go to the bathroom and class time was either too long or too short, depending on the character or mood of each day. A standard public school curriculum does not allow for a lot of creativity and the kids were bored and restless with the antiquated works they often had to read (but rarely did). After a year and a half of teaching, I woke up one June morning and said,

"I just can't do this for another year."

I quit that job on July 1, 2004. At the time, I had a publishing contract to write a non-fiction book about exercise for middle age people. There was no way I could be a writer and a teacher at the same time so I thought I'd devote myself to writing. Though I lived near a beautiful beach, the mountains still called me endlessly. I love to ski and ride horses, and there's not much room for either in New Jersey. I made another life-changing decision on the same day I quit teaching: to take a horse pack trip into the Rocky Mountains. Finally, I was going to get close to the beauty that had been in my dreams for years. Jumping on the internet, I found a trip called The Ultimate - five days into the Sangre de Cristo Mountains with a couple of cowboys and a bunch of folks I didn't know.

The pack trip was indeed a dream come true. Leaving out of beautiful Bear Basin Ranch in Westcliffe, we rode for hours each day, deeper into the Sangres, setting camp at night and laughing around the fire. As far from "civilization" as I could imagine, I knew I was exactly where I wanted to be. Besides, I met an extraordinary cowboy named Bob and after years of discouraging relationships I was back in the saddle so to speak.

On the last day of the trip, dirty and weary from five days in the mountains, the clients sat together waiting for a van ride back to the airport.

"Well," one of the guys said, "It's back to the real world."

"No," I replied without hesitation, "This is the real world."

And that, as they say, was that. I returned to New Jersey and put my house on the market. Although I had opened a solo law practice I put away any ideas of venturing back into that arena. I sold everything I owned, down-sized my life completely and started looking for jobs in the outdoor adventure industry in Colorado. My friends thought I was crazy.

"Where will you live? What will you do? What about money? What about the kids?" And on.

My two older sons had left the nest, off to college and work and life. My youngest was in his senior year of high school. He and I lived a peaceful existence but once he was gone, why would I be in New Jersey? Why would I not live the life I had seen in my head for 25 years? There was no reason to stay.

I had a "Pillage My House Party" where I invited my friends and neighbors to bring food and beer and take anything they wanted. They did an admirable job of emptying my house. Real estate at the Jersey shore had gone through the roof and in February I sold my house for multiples of what I'd paid. The Universe was on my side I could tell. I lived with fear, and eager anticipation of what my new life would be like. And then, there was Cowboy Bob.

Bob was the solitary desperado kind of guy, living in a one-room cabin on a 5000 acre horse ranch near Westcliffe. Amazingly, he was also a "recovering lawyer" with three sons and two divorces under his belt, an aspiring writing and lover of the outdoors who could live out of a backpack. That we stumbled upon each other was more than an odd coincidence. Once again, that Big Force at work was bringing me better than expected. But Bob was two thousand miles away, and we settled for an occasional weekly visit, and plenty of phone calls. I still had a son in high school and was not about to abandon my responsibility. Eventually after interacting with my cowboy via long-distance, I realized that I couldn't depend on building a life with Bob, and I bought a tiny condo in Steamboat and accepted a job offer in Estes Park.

Men are funny sometimes. Although I wanted to live in that cabin and work on that ranch Bob was into "rubber band" mode - going back and forth between desire to be with me and the abject fear of getting hurt again. As soon as I started making my plan, though, he suddenly saw the possibilities of a life together. Determined not to make this move for a man, I charted my own course for the summer: To fulfill a lifelong dream, I'd take a three week Outward Bound course, then go backpacking with the Sierra Club in the Snowmass wilderness. I wasn't sure what would happen in the intervening weeks but I knew I'd go to the ranch and see Cowboy Bob. He was pretty irresistible.

On June 19, 2005 - four days after my Joey graduated high school - I packed up my little Honda CRV with my remaining stuff. My best girlfriend Carol had offered to accompany me cross country. We would be Thelma and Louise, it seems, without the sex and violence. Carol is the girl I never was: she can sew curtains and shop. She brought to this venture the steadfast loyalty of the Iowa farm girl she is: all heart, endless work, no complaining. Within three days we had landed in Steamboat, furnished the little condo, and she headed home.

I wandered and ambled about Colorado all summer, loving the Rockies and sleeping outside under a blanket of stars. At 49, I had found my bliss. Between Outward Bound and Sierra Club trips I worked with Bob on the ranch, taking people horseback riding and rock climbing, cooking dinner on a campfire in the mountains. It was a dream come true. By late August, I guess Bob found me irresistible too and we decided to make a go of it. Divested of nearly all those unnecessary earthly possessions, I now live in that 300 square foot cabin with Cowboy Bob. How we manage that is the subject of another article, but we laugh a lot, that's for sure.

For me, the journey from soccer mom to cowgirl was truly the path of least resistance. People ask me how I could "give up everything" to live such a simple life and I tell them that this is the easy part. Living my "other life" was much more difficult, getting up each day to go to a job that made my heart clench, fighting adversaries and my own endless restlessness. Surely that life was much more difficult than waking up to the sound of 60 horses pounding through the meadow on round up while watching the Sangres turn pink in the morning sun. We don't have a TV, running water, or indoor plumbing. It's amazing how little you really need to be totally content. The cabin is warm and full of love. People walk in and feel at home. Bob and I ride horses, or go mountain biking, or hike into the Sangres to find hot springs or a lake. I'm an EMT now, and I volunteer on the local rescue squad. We are expanding our business so that all kinds of folks - from teenage kids to women to old folks - can come out and enjoy life with us.

My kids love to tell people that their mom is a cowgirl but she used to be a lawyer and a teacher and my friends envy the simplicity and freedom I've gained in "losing" everything. As a writer, I feel compelled to share my story and great fortune with others because I believe we all yearn for a deep dream inside us to come true. Who doesn't have the occasional thought of shrugging off the weight of all our "stuff" - things we buy, obligations we acquire - just to wander around like a dog? You know how dogs just sit in the car, staring out the window, breathing in the great smells? This is my life now, the life of a happy pup, wandering around enjoying the beauty of this earth.

You might want to take a page from my book and start investing in your self, that Inner Cowgirl who's stuck in pantyhose or traffic. Dream big, friends, have faith and watch it unfold. Happy trails.

Phyllis Coletta is a "recovering" lawyer, former high school teacher, an EMT, cowgirl, writer, and a spiritual seeker since the age of 6 (maybe earlier, who knows). Currently, her life vision is to simply provide encouragement to those on the path. You can contact her through http://www.phylliscoletta.blogspot.com. Happy Trails.

Highlight Your Features With Necklaces

Necklaces are a great way show off your best facial features. The right color and design will also bring out the glow of your skin. There are many types of necklaces to choose from. They come in different lengths, widths and bead designs.

Necklaces have been popular for many years. Cleopatra, the Egyptian queen, is often pictured as wearing many different kinds of jewelry. Both men and women in ancient civilizations wore necklaces as a sign of religion or for cultural reasons.

In today's times, necklaces are worn more as a stylish fashion accessory. Manufacturers are constantly changing their designs to cater to their customers. They create designs from gemstones, beads, gold, diamonds and silver. There are pearl necklaces as well as simple chains.

Finding a necklace that flatters you is a matter of knowing a few things about the styles and your needs.

For instance, if you are wearing a top that has a v-neck, a boat neck or off the shoulder style, you might want to choose a choker style, a matinee necklace, rope necklace or a princess style.

The choker is short only about 14 inches long and is the classic necklace. It goes well with both formal evening clothes to the very casual outfit. It's stylish worn with a button front shirt or a trendy cocktail dress.

For a business lunch or dinner you'll want to choose something that will be elegant get give you confidence. If you're wearing a casual outfit with a high neckline, try a matinee necklace. They go good with formal gowns as well. The matinee necklace measures from twenty two to twenty-three inches in length.

Wanting something chic and sexy? A rope necklace is perfect. It can have the clasps located in different spots for different looks. The rope necklace can be a bracelet or a multi-strand choker. Leave it long and knot it for a trendy look.

If you're wearing a crew or low-necked outfit or are unsure of what looks best, pick a princess style necklace. This necklace is usually around eighteen inches long.

The opera necklace is good for either crew or high necklines. It can be worn with dressy formal clothing or for a more casual outfit. It too, like the rope necklace, can be knotted for a classic look.

You can find necklaces many places. One good place to search is online. You can shop for fine necklaces from the comfort of your home. Online sites have big collections to pick from and often have the most updated styles available. If you want a vintage style necklace, many online shops carry these classic looks as well.

Many precious gems can be set into a necklace for a luxurious look. Gems are available in all colors and sizes so you are sure to find one that appeals to you. Gems can range from the classic diamond to a deep cut ruby to the deep blue of an aquamarine gemstone. You can choose your own design and color to complement your outfit.

The necklace is the one piece of jewelry than can have the biggest impact on how you look. Depending on the style of necklace, it can either give color and style to any outfit or it could destroy how the outfit looks.

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What Is Marriage?

Some may wonder what is marriage? To some getting married means belonging to one person and one person only. Others look at being married as something much more sacred that just belonging, it is best when it brings two souls together as one. Marriage might mean that they finally just can't live without the other in their life and want to spend every minute of the rest of their lives together.

What is marriage and how is it different from the past? Today it is different from what it used to be like. Long ago being a married person meant getting married at a young age, or saving your virginity until marriage. Today, you may wait until your 30 or 40s before ever attempting to tie the knot. As for being a virgin, most people are no longer virgins before they wed, but there are still some virgin brides. The courtships seem to last many years before you actually set a date and marry. Young lovers want to know they can live together and to see what it will be like, they want to make sure they've finished college and started jobs.

What is marriage like with and without religion? This can be different for many people, if you've grown up with religion in your home and it was a very big deal it still will be and it is something you'll definitely want in your marriage. However for those that never grew up with it they may not see the importance of having religion in the marriage or even in their life. Make sure you know what type of person you are marrying; if this is a key thing it will become a big issue for the wedding and after. Before getting married many may have a different view on the type of wedding ceremony you have. Someone may want a catholic wedding while others may think a protestant wedding is best, to avoid all conflict one may even choose not to have any type of religion at their wedding. If you plan on having a religious ceremony make sure you follow all procedures, sometimes a priest will want to meet with the happy couple for counseling before ever performing the wedding.

What is marriage like when it is legal? Some couples wonder if they should even make their marriage legal or just stay living together. To some it is only something that is a piece of paper saying they are legally together. For those they may not want to have just a paper to tell them how important it is, especially if they've already lived together for a few years. In a few states, couples that live together a certain amount of time, normally seven years or more, are considered to have a common law marriage. A marriage that is legal is one that is performed by a minister or someone that is qualified to perform the ceremony. Once the ceremony is complete the bride and groom will sign a piece of paper and a few weeks later get a certificate in the mail, in the meantime you will be given a document to show proof of marriage.

So before you take steps to get married think about marriage think about what is marriage. You don't want to jump into a marriage because you thought this meant one thing and ended up being something entirely different, that's where divorce ends up coming in. Think long and hard about what the it involves, and what it means to you. Don't forget to ask your loved one what they think that this is going to mean to them. You wouldn't want to find out that the two of you have different views on how you will live when you are married. Make your relationship together a lasting one, after all that's what marriage should be - one that lasts forever.

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Celtic Knots - History and Use in Art and Jewelry

Celtic knots are well-known but did you know that they are not exclusive to the Celts? They in fact turn up at an earlier time in history in Roman mosaics and were also used by the Vikings and Saxons. They represent patterns made by ropes, intricately woven, not inevitably in the shape of a knot. Occasionally they are continuous, i.e. with no loose ends, when they are called Gordian knots, named after the legendary knot that Alexander the Great tried to unfasten. When he was unsuccessful, as he must be as the knot had no end, he took his sword and sliced it through, cutting it in half in order to make two ends.

Early Uses of Knotwork

Intricately knotted patterns are found in decorations from the early Roman Empire mainly during the 3rd and 4th C.E., especially in floor mosaics. Prior to the Christian affect on the Celts, i.e. prior to around 450 A.D., Celtic decorative work incorporated key patterns, spirals and step patterns. Early Christian manuscripts from the Celts show these patterns as well as more decorative work depicting plants, animals and other images from life. Initially these patterns patterns of interlaced plaits were also found in several other regions and time periods. The very earliest cases of Celtic knots may be seen in the Gospel book which was created in in the 7th century in Northern Britain and is now in the collection at Durham Cathedral.

Early Plaitwork

Plaitwork refers to an unbroken woven thread and appears in earlier art work prior to the development of genuine Celtic knots. The original designs distinctive of Celtic knots were seen in southern Gaul and northern Italy and they reached Ireland by the seventh century. While we correlate this type of knot with the Celts they were also used in other parts of the British Isles and from there carried to other countries of Europe by wandering monks. In this day and age Celtic knots are associated with Scotland, Ireland or Wales.

The Trinity Knot

One type of Celtic knot, nowadays called the Trinity knot or triquetra, is often seen originally in the earliest Germanic rune stones and coins from the northern part of Europe where it was employed a pagan religious symbol, perhaps associated with Odin the Norse god. The triquetra is related to the Insular art phase of Celtic and was used in decorated texts, for instance, the celebrated Book of Kells, and on metalwork. It was generally used beside other kinds of Celtic knots and very rarely used on alone. Though we don't know if the Trinity knot had any symbolic connotation to the Celts more recent renditions have given it a particular importance as a representation of things that are threefold, for example, as the past, present and future, the Holy Trinity or mother, daughter and granddaughter.

Celtic Knots in Contemporary Jewelry

Now the Celtic knot is a common pattern in both gold and silver Celtic knot jewelry. Lots of designs are created and Celtic knots are found on rings, earrings, wedding bands, pendants and anklets. The triquetra is a common design and the elaborate knots so cherished by the Celts are similarly loved by wearers of Celtic knot jewelry nowadays.

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Protecting the Valuable Memory From Pet Plush Toys

Have you ever acquired plenty of pet plush toys that are full of memories? Memories which are really from a much loved pet which you want to keep for a long period? Once, while I was watching the very first episode of the TV series Vampire Diaries, a line got my interest. To make it more clear it goes something like this; "Memories are important". Seems simple doesn't it? Though the significance is anything but simple.

One sure thing which is going to happen with pet plush toys is they will be torn by your pet. And because of my love for my pet, I keep the toys that offered my pet some joy, as well as gave a lot of stress to my pet. By the way, I've got a pet dog.

So for every one of you that treasure the memories of your beloved pet, here are some suggestions on the way to conserve the plush toys they frequently spend playtime with.

To begin with, let's discuss the regular kind of injury a dearly loved it might have. This is the simplest repair you can do even if you are not a seamstress. For ripped seams, a thick or strong needle is desirable for big pet plush toys and a thinner needle for smaller ones.

It's best to stitch the seams back together by using a clear polyester thread which has a knot in the end. Very carefully push the threaded needle all the way through the inside of the rip to ensure that your knot won't show up on the outside. Very carefully stick to these specific directions, pull the needle through one side of the tear and back all the way through the other side; pull on your needle so that the two sides come together. Carry on this until the hole is closed and tie off the residual thread as close to the plush animal as it can be. Be aware, that when the plush toy is the furry type, comb through the fur to help hide the stitches. Also ensure that you push any overflowing stuffing back into the toy simultaneously as sewing.

I want to get back to the furry plush toys. Make sure you comb the matted or clumpy fur using a wire brush. Do it with a gentle motion. You may also put it the dryer on low setting for 4 to 5 minutes to re-fluff.

On a second note, one more condition which a plush toy can be, after going into war with your pet, is the loss of stuffing. Try to find the material just like the original content of it. Replace or add new stuffing to it, it's also possible to restore the chubbiness when the stuffing goes flat or clumps up. And here are the guidelines: untie a side seam and add polyester fill, fluff or any filling material then carefully stitch it back up once again.

The skill of replacing stuffing may also be carried out to remove the toxic materials of it. On the grounds that many old stuffed animals could be filled up with toxic foam or plastics.

And finally, another thing that cannot be avoided is if a large patch of plush is taken away out of your pet's memorable plush toy. If you can't get the original material used for the plush toy's body, search for the nearest looking fabric to fix the patch. Please remember this inside your heart, pet plush toys are a time machine which will bring back those happy memories that you have cherished.

The writer is a specialized designer, manufacturer and exporter of plush toys, soft toys, stuffed toys, cushions, and products for babies, and gift items. For related information, visit the following link: Pet Plush Toys

Take Five: Five Tips to Track Down your Canine Soul Mate

There is a right and a wrong way to pick a pooch. The process is a little like dating. The few who find fulfillment in love are those who use their hearts and their heads. There is a special kind of nirvana when a person connects with their canine soul mate. They weren't fooling when they called dog "man's best friend." But such unions don't happen by mistake. A little careful preparation will go a long way. And to simplify your search, we have five suggestions. we've borrowed a little Hollywood lingo to make the tips more memorable.

TAKE ONE! That is, take stock: This is the time to look around you, before you even start thinking of bringing home Buddy. Let's consider your life from a dog's eye view. Who lives in your house? Are there members of the household under twelve or over seventy? What about other pets? Analyze the chemistry of your household for a moment. What words describe your family? Are you fast-paced and active, or low-key and friendly? In case you didn't know, getting a dog is a little like adopting a child. They have their own personalities. Think about what personality would jibe best with your bunch.

Next evaluate your living space. Dog owners exist as apartment dwellers or cattle ranchers. While the size of your pad shouldn't ultimately determine whether you're canine-compatible, it should at least be a consideration. Take Phoebe for example, a spoiled golden retriever who lives comfortably in a tiny Brooklyn brownstone. The arrangement works because her owner is an active walker and doesn't mind taking three or four spins around the dog park every day. And don't think that just you have a huge backyard means you're best fitted for a border collie. Even hyper-active dogs will mope around waiting for someone to play with. Whatever your accommodations, if you rent or belong to an HOA, you may need to check the pet policy before entertaining the notion of getting a dog. (Many renters allow dogs, but limit size or breed.) While looking at your house, consider your neighborhood. What is the noise level on your street, and how close are your neighbors? Your dog won't be living in a bubble. Social by nature, dogs react to the environment all about them.

Now that you've inspected your digs, how much time do you spend there? Is there someone home all the time? In this day and age that's highly unlikely. Look at work and school schedules, and don't forget holidays! How often do you vacate the property? Do you plan on taking the dog with you, or do you need to check out the local kennels?

Before you move on to take two, it would be prudent to anticipate future lifestyle changes. How likely are you to move? To get married? To break up? To have children? Dogs don't disappear when your life takes a turn. You don't want to end up leaving Poopsie at the pound just because you didn't think that far in advance. Dogs live ten to fifteen years or more. While it's impossible to know for sure, it's wise to consider where you think you might be.

TAKE TWO! Take advantage: There has never been a better time to learn about dogs! The world is at your fingertips. A thousand on-line quizzes can quickly narrow the field and recommend breeds that would fit your particular lifestyle and limitations. Your search just got a thousand times easier. Jot down the top ten, and do some research. First, look at pictures. What do you think? Is that a face you can love? Physical attraction, after all, does factor into finding a soul mate. Read as much as you can about the breeds you feel drawn to. Don't stop at the internet. The library and the pet store have an endless variety of books, magazines, and videos to assist you in your search. Even better, talk to other dog owners. Ask them what they like (and don't like) about their dogs. Go to a dog show, sit in on an obedience class, or call a local breeder. Take advantage of every resource you can to learn more about the breed.

TAKE THREE! Take interest: Get involved in the dog community. Make it a family affair. Volunteer at a local shelter. This gives the kids a chance to experience the responsibility of a dog. You may even consider fostering a dog looking for a home. Attend adoption days; ask the neighbor if you can play Frisbee with her whippet. All this interaction with dogs will allow you to see quirks that may not have been so apparent in your reading. Hidden expenses should also begin to be evident. What kind of equipment is needed to keep this kind of dog happy? Make sure to ask about health and grooming-related costs. Different breeds have different needs.

TAKE FOUR! Take your time: Now is not the time to rush into a relationship, but you are getting closer to a commitment. Start putting out feelers. If you plan to get a pup from a breeder, find out when the next litter is due. If you have your heart set on a particular breed, but want a mature dog, you may want to look into breed rescue groups. They have some great animals that already have some training, and are a fraction of the price. And don't forget that sometimes those mixed mutts lead the pack! Spend some quality time in the kennels. Many shelters allow a few days or a week adjustment period before tying the knot.

TAKE FIVE! Take cover: You think you've found the one? Hurray! Just remember that every relationship takes time and effort. Sign up for obedience classes and arm yourself with a little more patience than normal. Take it easy on yourself, knowing that if you've taken our advice, you'll be just fine!

Emma Snow, an animal lover, works in marketing for Dog Pound http://www.dog-pound.net and Horse Stall [http://www.horse-stall.net] leading portals for pet management.

All About Promise Rings

Available in a wide range of styles, promise rings are given before marriage to symbolize love and commitment. When couples do not feel it's the right time to get married, but plan to some day, a promise ring can be given to declare one's true feelings.

Whether you choose a 14k gold promise ring, a white or yellow gold promise ring or a diamond promise ring, it will be a piece of jewelry you treasure forever.

Traditional designs include a heart to symbolize your true love and affection for one another. Other styles that are quite popular among young people are the Celtic knot designs, which can stand for unwavering commitment and fidelity.

Sterling silver promise rings are also available for couples on a budget, and they still look amazing as a true symbol of your love.

Diamond promise rings are also popular, but more expensive. However, small diamonds placed in a setting of yellow or white gold are quite common as promise rings for those who can afford them.

Semi-precious gemstones can also be used as the focal point of a promise ring. For example, if your partner loves a particular gemstone such as opal or tanzanite, you can purchase a promise ring with that gemstone to truly show your commitment.

While promise rings may seem similar to engagement rings, there are quite obvious differences between the two.

For example, typical promise rings tend to have much smaller carat weights than engagement rings. Promise rings also tend to be much less expensive and over the top, featuring simplistic designs and lower quality metals.

The most obvious difference between promise rings and engagement rings is the intent of the giver - it does not symbolize marriage, but rather commitment and love so that one day, marriage might be an option.

However, promise rings can symbolize a variety of things, though commitment between young couples seems to be the most popular use of a promise ring.

Promise rings can also mean religious purity, where people wear a promise ring to remind themselves to remain true to a particular religious path or as a promise of sexual abstinence until marriage.

They can also be used between friends, and are typically called friendship rings rather than promise rings.

However, the intent remains the same no matter what you call them, and are usually exchanged between young people as a promise they'll remain friends forever.

Though there are a wide variety of meanings behind promise rings, the most popular use is between young couples that are not ready for marriage but want a symbol of their devotion to one another.

Given from the heart, promise rings are the ultimate token of true love and affection.

Denise Sutton recommends Heavenly Treasures if you’re shopping for Promise Rings.

The Unique Allure of Everlon Love Knot Jewelry

Everlon Knot Jewelry - A celebration of deep and continuous love. This stunning collection features breathtaking pieces, rich in meaning and design. The Everlon Symbol signifies the truest of loves; a love made to last forever. To understand this meaning a glance through history teaches us that the knot symbol has been used throughout the ages to signify strength and continuity. Additionally various cultures world wide have employed this symbol as a representation of the tying together of two people; a man and a woman. The [b]Everlon Love Knot[/b] works with both the infinity and Celtic knot symbols. That eludes to beginnings and endings. In viewing these beautiful knots, we cannot see a beginning or an end, and therefore we are reminded of the timeless nature of love and commitment.

The beautiful arrangement of these pieces, includes a knot design that follows a continual loop. To signify a boundless and endless commitment that keeps on running. At its center is a diamond. The diamond is placed carefully at the core of this design; the heart of the design; the sacred place where the sentiments of this union are drawn from. A diamond is strong, beautiful and everlasting. This Everlon Diamond Knot Collection symbolizes an invincible bond. It tells a story of a love that is strong, lasting and true.

By choosing a piece of Everlon Diamond Jewelry you are showing the special someone in your life the magnitude of your love and commitment. The Everlon Diamond Knot collection has a vast array of intricately crafted pieces that have been designed to take her breath away! Including a stunning Everlon Knot Pendant and Everlon Knot Bracelet selection, dazzling designs that will sweep her off her feet! Bring out the sparkle in her eyes with a set of Everlon Knot Earrings, these elegant pieces are a truly meaningful and stunning gift!

Choose Everlon Diamonds for a heart felt gift that she will cherish always, capture your sentiments with this personal range and let her wear your heart on her sleeve. Browse through this devastatingly beautiful collection and choose a piece to symbolize your continuing love. For a bond that will never break and a love built to last.

Julian Baughman currently works for http://www.kranichs.com at the Kranich's Jewelers corporate office in Altoona, Pennsylvania where he has been employed since 2008. He previously worked for Ogden Newspapers Inc., at the Altoona Mirror as a graphic design/creative services professional. Julian is also a Penn State Alumni where he specialized in digital media.

Birthday Gifts For Baby - Try the Auspicious Feng Shui Products

It is commonly believed that Feng Shui gifts if presented to someone brings happiness to the receiver. The principle that underlies the concept of Feng Shui is that you can live in harmony with the environment only when the energy surrounding you works in your favor and not against you. For a baby who has just arrived in this world, nothing can be a better gift than "positive energy." Feng Shui calls this positive energy as "positive Chi." Here are certain unique Feng Shui gift items that can be presented to a baby on its arrival or first birthday.

Following are certain such unique asian-inspired gift items that can be presented to a baby on its arrival or first birthday:

o Paper Firecrackers are thought to stimulate the good luck of the child for the year.

o Beautiful Faceted Crystal attracts "positive Chi" and enhances the positive vibrations in your surrounding.

o A special Bagua Shaped Mirror that can be placed where needed. These mirrors are thought to deflect negative energy.

o A very famous product is the "dragon". It is a powerful symbol of energy, strength and protection.

o Scented baby pillows are the best gift as they are adorned with the 'Chinese endless knot' that is a symbol of longevity and ensures long life, positive energy and vitality for the child.

o A Coin Globe can be hung from a door knob. It serves the decorative purpose and also brings in prosperity.

o Another beautiful gift can be a Jade Pendant with a Chinese Knot. This is excellent to ensure protection and good luck for the new arrival.

o There is yet another special product called the 'Fu Dogs'. A pair of these ensures protection and should be placed on either side of the front door.

o Desires and wishes for health, wealth and happiness can be written and placed inside the Chinese Lucky Red Wish Envelope (that is available with Blank Paper). The intention should be firm in mind while presenting the gift.

Thus, these Feng Shui baby-gifts will bring luck and prosperity for the small baby and their uniqueness will be appreciated by one and all.

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Yoga - For Health

Balancing Yin and Yang through yoga.

FREEING THE MIND

The upper cinnabar field , the energy-centre between the eyebrows, is the place of the true self, the inner guide - our access to the intuitive mind and to universal wisdom. The third eye is known in many cultures as the eye of knowledge and vision, which is able to see past, present and future.

In the Chinese alchemical body map, it is the place where Lao zi sites in meditation; the place beyond the division of Yin and Yang, beyond duality - the place of the impartial observer, the true alchemist. It is above the influence of the five elements, which create movement and transformation whichin the physical and energy bodies.

In the Indian tradition, it is the Ajna chakra ('ajna' means 'to know and to command'). Its trigger point is between the eyebrows, but its root is deep within the brain at the pineal gland. In the Indian system, this is also seen as the place above duality and the place above the interactions of the five elements. Here the Idea and Pingalanadis, the lunar and solar channels, merge and dissolve into each other. It is the centre of consciousness, which relates to the causal body whioch is above the distinction of gender. It exists outside time and space. It is also above karma.

Situated at the centre between the eyebrows is the knot of Rudra, sometimes called the know of shiva. This is the last knot, which creates a blockage between the brow centre represents complete union with divine consciousness.

Working with the upper dan tian brings mental clarity. It allows us to rise above the demands of the body and the emotions and to see with detachment. Once we access this part of our mind, it can act as our guide, our contact with intutive wisdom/

When working with the Brow centre, physical exercise does not seem to be apporopriate, although it is important to ensure that the energy channels flowing through the neck and shoulders are free of obstruction. The following sequence of exercises ensures free-flow of energy into the head, the brain and the sensory orifices. Sit comfortably with the spine straight, or stand in the basic qi gong position.

1.Shoulders: With the hands hanging loosely at the side, jpull the shoulders up towards the ears, the shoulders up towards the ears, then let them go, releasing any tension keep the shoulders straight, not hunching forward, or stretching back, repeat five times. Bring the hands to the shoulders and rotate the arms, brnging the elbows together, then stretching away in as large a circle as possible. Repeat the opposite way.

2.Shoulder message : With the right elbow loosely supported in the palm of the left hand, make a first with the right hand and gently tap the top and back of the left shoulder. Release the first and tap the shoulders with the palm. Make sure that the elbow is well supported and the hand coimpletely relaxed. Repeat for the opposite side.

3.Neck streches: with the hands relaxed in the lap, breathe quietly. Take a breath in and exhaling bring the chin down to the chest, This should be a slow controlled movement, coordinated with the breath. Breathe in and return to the upright position. Breathe out as you allow the head to fall backwads. These movements should always be slow and controlled, allowing the weight of the head to stretch the muscles. Repeat for ten full breaths five complete movements.

4. Relax and take a few breaths. Breathe in and as you exhale, allow the head to fall slowly to the side bringing the ear towqards the shoulder. Do not force. Breathe in as you bring the head back to the central position. Repeat on the other side. A very gentle movement is sufficient to stimulate the meridians and to relax the muscles. Repeat for ten full breaths, five complete movements.

5.Relax again at the centre. Take a deep breath in. Keeping the head vertical, slowly rotate the head around to look over your right shoulder as you exhale. Keep the eyes open wide and look around as far as you can to the back. Make sure that the top of your head remains in the centre, the neck stretches upwards as if being pulled by a rope from the top of the head the chin is pulled slightly in as you breathe in, slowly bring the head back to the centre. Breathe out and move slowly to the left/ Repeat for ten breaths, five complete movements

6.Ears: Rub the hands together, until they are warm and place them over ears. With the thumb and index finger pull the ear lobes then gently squeeze around the rim of the ear. With the hands still loosely over the earl, allow the thumbs to rest in the hollow behind the ears at the base of the skull. Keeping the shoulders relaxed, gently push the thumbs upwards. Relax and repeat breathing out as you stretch the neck.

7.Eyes: sitting in a relaxed position with the wpine straight rub the hands together vigorosuly until they are hot. Place the hands over the eyes, the centre of the palm over the centre of the eyeball. Remain still for two to three minutes with the eyes closed. Repeat three times. With the thumb and forefinger, pinch along the eyebrows from the centre outwards.

8.HeadL: Shake the hands with the wirst loose. Keeping that same loose action , lift the hands above the head, and pat the head with the fingertips, beginning at the centre front and working slowly to the nape of the neck; gradually separate the hands and repeat, moving about an inch further from the centre line each time/

9. With the same loose wrist movement , tap the base of the skull with the fingertips.

10.Qi Sweeping: Place the palms of the hands over the eyes, then stroke the hands backwards, around the head, down the back of the neck across the shoulders and down the front of the body in one long sweeping movement as if you are brushing the body down. Repeat three times and remain sitting quietly for a few movements.

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